"In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on" - Robert Frost
Tuesday, 17 October 2023
OW!!!
Monday, 16 October 2023
Oh my giddy aunt
We picked up the keys at 9.00, had a coffee and started to read through the property report.
"Not too bad" I thought.
Then we got to the house. It is filthy. OK, the carpets have been cleaned. The white carpets I was so worried about? Turns out they were originally grey as seen in wardrobes where the sun don't shine! The sheer curtains? Hiding the hideous, barely working vertical blinds. The grease and grime in the kitchen? EW.
At least the bathrooms and toilets are clean.
The garden suggests this was once a much loved house and we plan to return that, at least, to some form of former glory.
The curtains have been taken down cos, you know, cats! We were going to leave the verticals but they are so bad I have to cover them, even though it will cost us a little bit. I have to live in that house for up to 12 months and I hate hate hate functioning verticals, let alone ones that should have been binned!
I am feeling very shell shocked at the moment but I hope that tomorrow things will start to make a bit more sense and the house will feel a bit more like home. I have already cleaned the kitchen walls and benches.
Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit drinking.
Sunday, 15 October 2023
And it begins
Tomorrow we are at the real estate agent at 0900 to pick up the keys then off to the new house to complete the property inspection which will take a couple of hours (we have to go through every room comparing their photos with what we see, send photos of our own if we find anything and then sign off - this is the basis of our exit report and needs to be thorough to ensure we get our bond back).
Saturday, 14 October 2023
It looks as if the referendum did not succeed.
This is not surprising in the historical light of referenda in the past (8/44 succeeded).
How do I feel? I just hope that this whole process doesn't lead to increased division. There are certain parts of the country that were bound to vote no and I don't think the yes campaign did enough to address their (unfounded but real) fears of what a yes vote would result in. This would have been a brilliant opportunity for some basic education rather than political rhetoric. On both sides.
It's a tricky situation. The constitution dictates, to a degree, who we are as a nation, and I don't think politics should come into it but I don't know how to conduct a referendum without political influence.
Anyway.
We parked the car and walked up to the voting place with the dogs. Such a change from voting in the city! In and out in no time.
A quiet afternoon for me. Himself went for a drive up to the block (cos it's Saturday) and went to check out some cars on the waterfront. It is the Rocktober festival here (had no idea or I would have invited the Mermaid - she loves her rock and roll dancing) and the place was buzzing. Sadly the winds put a bit of a damper on things.
We then went to the Bowls club for dinner. We used our birthday vouchers so the meal cost us $18 all up. We won a venue voucher in the raffle for $30 to use down the track and paid our dues at the pokies. It was a most pleasant evening and just what we needed after a bit of a trying time.
We are old fashioned and use hot water bottles in the winter. I do not like electric blankets, especially after friends' house nearly burnt down as a result of a faulty one. The dog alerted them and they weren't in bed or it would have been a fatal fire, according the firies who attended.
Last night one of our hot water bottles was faulty. But we didn't die.
Himself just ended up sleeping in a wet patch.
Friday, 13 October 2023
No photos today
Having a bit of a blah day. I think it's the upcoming move and all associated with it.
Crikey, the stuff you have to do when you move! And I've only just done it. Inform banks, government departments, subscriptions, health funds, medical specialists, insurance and then just in case - put in a mail redirection. And when I got the email they have misspelt my first name. A common thing and I am not going to make a fuss. My surname is so unusual and the first name sounds the same I would be hard pressed to find anyone even notice it. Apart from me!
Wee Jacob is on naso-gastric feeds for a while as his suck reflex isn't good and he needs to build his strenght. Sadly Dr Teacher's ex showed up just before they did so he wasn't able to see the new mum but he did get to see his son holding his grandson. Families give me the right royal irrits sometimes.
We took the dogs for a run in the local grassy area which backs onto houses and stuff. There is a house with a wire fence and a large dog that ours made a beeline for. We got chatting with the woman there. It is her daughter's dog that she agreed to mind for a week five years ago!
Tomorrow we vote in the referendum. Regardless of the outcome, it will be messy and political and I will be angry.
I think I need to be out of this house.
I may be scarce over the next week as I deal with everything.
Thursday, 12 October 2023
Lovely weather for ducks.
Himself went up this afternoon and dug a small trench to divert water into the agi pipe or something storm water related and it seems to be working. Photos will follow!








































