"In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on" - Robert Frost
Wednesday, 31 May 2023
Done
Monday, 29 May 2023
Normal service will be resumed shortly
Again, I know, and I apologise.
I am exhausted to the point of finding words hard.
I am quietly shitting myself over Wednesday's cataract op. It scares me more than any other op I've had including a knee replacement.
Good news ... Three has a new rental and is over the moon. A much better house for them all and now Amy can look for another job.
I may pop in over the next few days or not but I will be fine.
Sunday, 28 May 2023
Sunday.
Last night was great fun. The neighbours are considerably younger than us and his son and daughter came along as well (one is in high school and one at uni). The dogs were made a fuss of. Max didn't disappear and indeed, tolerated a stroke or two. Pizzas were eaten and wine was drunk. It was a really lovely evening. Typical. Just as we are about to leave the area we make the sort of friends we could do this with on a regular basis!
Another few boxes and I think I will have packed as much up as I can for now.
Himself has just about got the garage sorted. Another couple of tip runs should see it through.
And then we sit and twiddle our thumbs waiting for the move!
Three and his lot popped over yesterday. Sally was looking at the for sale board out the front. It has photos of the back garden, the kitchen, the formal lounge and the top room which has the bar. She said "here is the back yard, here is the kitchen, here is a living space and here is the winery".
My kind of kid.
Saturday, 27 May 2023
Scam
I did sell them to a lovely lady from Australia! And the dresser went today.
Friday, 26 May 2023
Boxes
The boxes in the ceiling space and under the house. Oh my god!! I had no idea SOMEONE had brought so much shit with us. I thought my craft stuff was bad. Anyway, the ceiling is now empty (and I have told him in no uncertain terms the only thing going in the new house ceiling is insulation). CDs, DVDs, books, paperwork, computer stuff (how many external hard drives does one person need?) and the list goes on.
Thursday, 25 May 2023
Phones
Does anyone else think they (and everyone else) spend too much time on their phone?
Remember when you could leave the house without worrying that someone might ring you?
When you could go out to dinner or catch up with friends and not worry about missing a text or an email?
When people didn't get pissed off because you weren't available 24/7?
When you could engage 100% with someone without them being distracted by a ping?
When you could walk down the street and not worry about being bumped into by someone oblivious to their surroundings?
Today I used my phone to put the big dresser on market place and someone is coming to get it on Saturday so I am currently packing up all the contents.
Phones do have their use but I do wonder if we could, perhaps, use them a little less.
Wednesday, 24 May 2023
Nearly there.
Today I got the quote from the anaesthetist. All up I will be out of pocket around $1550 for both cataract surgeries. $1000 for the surgeon, $300 for the sleepy bloke and $250 excess on our health insurance. Not bad, eh?
I planted the lettuce, carrots and peas for the new owners. Well, the little boy, really. Pretty sure we saw the wife do a drive by earlier. I am sure they will do that regularly until they move in. We did.
I packed up all my summer clothes and some of my winter stuff. I have another load to take to the op shop. Stuff I like but never wear. Not worn in 6 years? To the op shop!
I popped into the local hairdresser to see if she could tidy me up. I looked around at who was in the salon, looked at the hairdresser and decided I will try elsewhere. I don't need much done but I also don't want to look like those women in the salon!
Yes, I am struggling for something to talk about right now. I am still a bit zonked with all that is going on.
I feel as if I am just about to reach the summit of a very steep, rocky mountain and then I can launch myself off and roll all the way down the sweet, grassy slope on the other side.
There will be other challenges once we have moved but we won't have the "must dos" hanging over our heads.
It doesn't help that my anxiety is creeping up. I know why but it doesn't help the feeling.


